Older man happy listening to music and enjoying feeling great in his new suit


“Fashion is a trend, style lives within a person:’’’’ Oscar de la Renta

OMG – when you put it that way, how hard can it be? If our style lives within us, it should be pretty easy to bring it to the surface, right? But – where it is hiding? You know your style could use a reboot.  How to get started?  And, how do we find the style within ourselves… ?  You have this niggling feeling that you will know your style when you see it… but where to find it and roll with it?   And, for many – this style awakening can’t happen soon enough…. particularly if starting a new phase in your life. Perhaps you are newly single, about to make a career change and working on you.

If you have been devoting time to elevating your life… maybe you have a life coach, done some serious self-reflection, sharpened your professional skills, cleared out some self-limiting beliefs, set exciting goals and are ready to get to started on your new path…. We are proud of you!  Now that you feel reinvented and your energy level, creativity and love of life and particularly of yourself are at an all time high, you have never felt more psyched to attract your future  ideal job or mate. … And you will be a real jewel to your next boss or someone who is on a similar trajectory and imagine working on your life goals together as a power couple! This is beyond exciting.

And, if you have not yet started on a higher version of you, these tips apply equally to everyone and just know that they will simply be amplified if the inner work is happening also

Now that you are doing or have done the inner work – what about the outer you?   Congruency is like your own secret weapon   – there is something really uplifting about being with someone who is living a congruent life. Congruency is about walking the talk… having the outer you reflect the inner you, in all the layers of your being in your attitude as well as your wardrobe!

Perhaps the outer you is already in harmony with your elevated self….but if you have been in an emotional funk or felt stagnated – then your style choices probably need some upliftment also.

So, CONGRUENCY – how do we get there? Just like the inner work required some self-reflection, putting some new strategies into action and perhaps following the teachings of a master, OUTER WORK is no different. Having already gone through some self-reflection, faced some fears and tested the comfort zones, you will probably feel more open to suggestions about your look. And your look encompasses not only your clothing choices, right down to your underwear, but also, skincare, hairstyle and of course makeup for the ladies.

If you are not sure how to get started, a good fashionable, like-minded friend or a great stylist who is focused on your needs and lifestyle, will be a great start.

When you are in the groove of making the inner and outer you more congruent, this is kind of like a flow – you feel wonderful, free and uplifted with your personal accomplishments and your outer look matches your stellar inner you! What better way to increase your love attraction factor!




2 thoughts on “Your STYLE SUPERPOWER!”

  1. Great tips Tina ♥️♥️

    Hanging out with beauticians does help with the skin and make up 😃

    Just need clothing style now 😂

    But I wouldn’t mind shedding a few stones/kg first, to warrant a new wardrobe 🥰

    1. Appreciate the feedback Denise! Yes, any excuse is a good one to buy pretty new things – and why not start by just spoiling you for being a great human – that I am sure you are!

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