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“Fashion is a trend, style lives within a person:’’’’ Oscar de la Renta

OMG – when you put it that way, how hard can it be? If our style lives within us, should be pretty easy to bring it to the surface, right? But – where it is hiding? You know your style could use a reboot – hell, maybe even a whole new you. So, how do we find the style within ourselves… You have this niggling feeling that you will know it when it shows up at your doorstep…. and it can’t happen soon enough…. particularly now that you are starting a new phase in your life. Perhaps you are newly single, about to make a career change and working on you.

If you have been devoting time to elevating your life… maybe you have a life coach, done some serious self-reflection, cleared out some self-limiting beliefs, set exciting goals and are ready to get to started on your new path…. We are proud of you!  Now that you feel reinvented and your energy level and love of life and particularly of yourself are at an all time high, you have never felt more psyched to attract your future mate. … And you will be a real jewel to someone who is on a similar trajectory and imagine working on your life goals together as a power couple! This is beyond exciting.

Next BIG STEP – how do you find your co-conspirator in living a fulfilling, passionate life?   Now that you have done the inner work – what about the outer you?   Congruency is like your own secret weapon   – there is something really uplifting about being with someone who is living a congruent life. Congruency is about walking the talk… having the outer you reflect the inner you, in all the layers of your being.

Perhaps the outer you is already in harmony with your elevated self….but if you have been in an emotional funk or felt stagnated – then your style choices probably need some upliftment also.

So, CONGRUENCY – how do we get there? Just like the inner work required some self-reflection, some reading, following the teachings of a master, OUTER WORK is no different. Having already gone through some self-reflection, faced some fears, tested the comfort zones, you will probably feel more open suggestions about your look. And your look encompasses not only your clothing choices, right down to your underwear, but also, skincare, hairstyle and of course makeup for the ladies.

If you are not sure how to get started, a good fashionable, like-minded friend or a great stylist who is focused on your needs and lifestyle, will be a great start.

When you are in the groove of making the inner and outer you more congruent, this is kind of like a flow – you feel wonderful, free and uplifted with your personal accomplishments and your outer look matches your stellar inner you! What better way to increase your love attraction factor!




  • Denise Ly
    Posted at 07:15h, 07 May Reply

    Great tips Tina ♥️♥️

    Hanging out with beauticians does help with the skin and make up 😃

    Just need clothing style now 😂

    But I wouldn’t mind shedding a few stones/kg first, to warrant a new wardrobe 🥰

    • TinaJesso2
      Posted at 22:17h, 19 January Reply

      Appreciate the feedback Denise! Yes, any excuse is a good one to buy pretty new things – and why not start by just spoiling you for being a great human – that I am sure you are!

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